Why people become stubborn when we interfere in their businesses?

Why people become stubborn when we interfere in their businesses?: Why people become  stubborn  when we interfere in their businesses?  We have a friend who also likes to talk to others. It will ask you why...



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Are similar interests and hobbies important in a relationship ?

 Are similar interests and hobbies important in a relationship ? 

I think it's quite important that two people can be silent and still find it very sweet to be in each other's company. But this is based on a high degree of tacit understanding and spiritual compatibility, we often say that what makes two people together for a long time is the mutual attraction, please note these two words: mutual!!!! So the question is, how do we attract each other? You say he does not understand, he said you do not understand at all, at first just because look at the way he speaks, but also willing to listen to him speak for three hours, but also smiling to listen to him may see you speak for the love of the soft smile, listen to you say he does not understand and not very interested in things. 

Once or twice or three or four times okay okay, you love him so much that you want to hear his voice even if you can't gag on what he's saying, but you don't respond to what he's talking about, or pick up stubble that makes him laugh, a three-word special term he has to explain to you in five hundred and forty-six words before you can pick up the previous narrative....  

Take the current most praised answer, Fan Bingbing told you about the movie you love to listen to, ten times a hundred times is not tired of, to the Master Fan face the reaction is not in place, you are willing to say the second three, four, four or five times not? It's been said to be a couple, that is to love each other want to go on together, no words can really test people really no common topic will often gradually exchange tasteless, become ineffective communication. So, you always take the words to the more talked about people to say, the male ticket does not mind?  

I think, there can be different hobbies, each has its own wonderful, but together there must be a common intersection and topic, find each other's perspective of the unique, rich ideas, the same view of the tacit resonance, the collision of ideas when opinions differ to do ta lover, do ta listener, do ta chat with the companion, in this matter, he is his teacher, in the other thing to do his little apprentice, common experience common. 

I just want to find someone who I can suddenly wake up in the middle of the night and talk to her, do you think it's too demanding? A lot of people just started to be ambiguous when numerous topics ah, north and south of the sky ah. After determining the relationship is nothing more than a few words ah, you eat it, what are you doing, I want you, you love me. If a lifetime of decades are trapped in the few sentences of unkind words in the indifferent words then I think the common topic is not particularly important. It's just that when my boyfriend and I can talk so passionately in the train aisle about the culture of a country, the history of children, missions in Africa, advertising and marketing, future crime trends, and dirty jokes from one movie to the next, those few sentences seem tasteless. 

There is an answer that says the key is not to have a common topic or to keep the interest and respect for each other's topic. When you try to have a person who can easily follow up with something you didn't say. When you say one thing to someone and give them ten inspirations in return, you expand 20 ideas from their ten inspirations. When you belong to different fields, but you are good at finding the intersection of each other's fields, when theta influences and stimulates your field, when you spur deeper into the field of theta. When you meet someone like this, the wonderful feeling is really not comparable to maintaining respect and curiosity about each other's concept of interests. It's as if in your last life you paved the way for this life to meet and fall in love. 

There's a segment in the American drama Warehouse 13 where the woman is a high-flying IT hacker who falls in love with a guy in the witness protection program on a mission who identifies himself as a hardware store clerk. The woman never mentioned her profession, after all, said not many people understand. By accident she learns that his real identity is also a hacker. So he began to say what software he usually use what system of course I did not understand, and then the woman was so desperate to put him down. The first thing you need to know is that you'll be able to find a way to make sure that you're getting the most out of your money. 

People have a good feeling about people who are similar to them. It's not just a matter of three outlooks, but also of interests. Some people always separate their outlooks, interests and common topics, which are inseparable. They also like to say that they fall in love with the other person's hobbies, and because they love the person, they collect information about him or her. Doing so may have some effect at first, but it won't last long. The same outlook and interests are important factors in generating common topics. It is because they are the same that they have something in common. To be frank, from the point of view of some disciplines, a man and a woman together is no different from a miracle, and homosexuality makes more sense. So men and women are a chemical reaction, sexual instincts. So how do you make this instantaneous thing last? 

The most important thing to do is to make sure that you have a good idea of what you are doing. The common theme is such a stimulating chemical element. And this stimulating chemical element is like opium, it can heal or harm. Some people thirst for ta, some people don't care for ta. - Say you're tired of coming for a minute - let me tug. A large part of the reason why the psychological principle I just mentioned, which has been experimentally proven to be correct, didn't come out when we did it ourselves, is because of my data. Because I've been dying to disprove the theory. Because I don't think it's absolute or at least not long term. 

The actual reason for this is because of the fact that it's a very good idea to have a lot of people who are interested in the same things. The reason is that I had a completely different interest, and each of them played their own game, and in the end, they drifted further and further apart. Some friends may think that you should investigate the details of the other party before you fall in love, find out what their interests are, and then cater to them. This is not the case, because there is a word called "accumulation of" many things, including the tacit understanding between the couple is not rely on you to temporarily do the homework to make a fool of catering to the past, if your accumulation of too shallow, will make the other half feel very floating very unreliable. Two people together, a common theme when you can do known tacit cultivation, strengthen each other's relationship. On this basis you can go explore the unknown, do things together that both people have never done, through the unknown to touch the boundary value of the rapport, to further strengthen the relationship between the two. 

To sum up my personal opinion: common topics and common interests can indeed be cultivated, but it requires more cost and energy to cultivate, not to mention whether it can be cultivated successfully or not. Activation" and "empathy", good activation and empathy can promote mutual understanding and benign emotional development; common topics and common interests have an innate common basis and the relationship of the acquired form of convergence, which is similar to why some people would describe a couple as having "husband and wife", speaking with "husband and wife". 

It's true that people keep giving me compliments and I can't even think about not reading this answer. It's been a year or two since this answer was given, and it's gone through some changes, with the man-vote having become a former man-vote, but for this question, it's still in my mind. In the beginning, the prototype of "curious, respectful and interested in what the other person has to say" appeared in this answer and was my best friend. After a few years, we can still talk from morning to night as usual, is it because we have a lot in common? Not really. In fact we're each in different places now, doing different jobs, but every day we talk on tweets. She's interning in the marketing department and I'm interning in the fixed line group of an ICT company, and she'll be curious about what I talk about during my weekly technical study, and I'm willing to try to tell her what I'm studying in the simplest and most understandable way possible, and I'll be curious about what she does in the marketing department and will ask her what she's done today. By the way we are all different about a lot of things, but that doesn't stop us from wanting to tell each other what we are thinking and how we are feeling. So what if there are common themes? Did mathematicians end up marrying mathematicians and actors marrying actors? Do they talk about two things they have in common from morning to night in their lives? How is that possible. I think it's more important for two people to have a common laugh than to have a common topic. (Serious face). 

I still want to find a guy who is similar to her for a relationship, but it's so hard to find one. I want to say that guys and girls really different brain circuit, sometimes some guys will really find the discussion of the girl is not interesting, and do not want to understand, and then perfunctory, just want to say this perfunctory, will only slowly consume the relationship between you, and vice versa. If I really like the guy, it's a natural feeling to want to get to know what he likes, or at least want to know why he likes it, why he's unhappy, why...it's the smallest thing I can do to pay it forward. 

 This answer is somehow the one with the highest number of endorsements from me...it's really puzzling. Perhaps we all face situations where we have nothing to say, but we also need to distinguish between love and no words, and I hope that you don't mistakenly set fire to the relationship you're experiencing because of my answer to this question. It needs to be understood that love is a two-person affair, and while you can do well enough, if the other person is not at all appreciative, the relationship is unsustainable. 

My point is that common topics don't matter, being able to maintain respect and interest in whatever we say to each other, and being happy to explain to each other the underlying issues that the other person doesn't understand, is what matters. If you tell me about games, I don't understand, it's okay, but I'm curious, what kind of heroes do you usually use, what kind of spells do you have, how many people do you usually play with, what kind of strategy do you have... I tell you about Korean dramas, you don't understand, but you will ask me why the hero and heroine are together, do you like the second or the main man, do you think the writer has a brain? Too big...

I don't know how to get along like this and have nothing to say? For those of you who say you have nothing in common, think about whether you've really gotten to know each other's hobbies. Have you ever wanted to try to understand the topic of the other person's love? A common theme doesn't have to be innate, it's good to cultivate it slowly when we're together. This question also has quite a lot of praise, and I don't know if those who praise agree with my theory, or want to comfort themselves with the continuation of a relationship without a common theme. Either way, I think it's really important to do yourself a favor and have a clear conscience before you start thinking about something else. 

 Be yourself, and a lot of things won't be that hard.

 For couples, a lifetime is too long and there are too few topics to talk about, so don't expect to have something fresh to talk about every day and don't expect to keep the so-called freshness for a long time. The way for couples to get along is to understand and communicate with each other, as well as to get used to and tolerate each other. Moreover, love itself allows you to gradually experience the other world by discovering it in another person. Maybe you didn't like watching anime, but because your boyfriend does, you will try to appreciate the charm of anime; maybe he didn't like watching Korean dramas, but because you like to watch them, he can gradually find a few touches from the dogged plot in the process of watching them with you; maybe there are unacceptable interests between you, but you can still set aside your disputes and develop new topics together. That's what makes love so appealing. Instead of having a variety of topics to talk about like a full-fledged dinner, couples need to be able to eat like a home-cooked meal that they never get tired of. At the same time, you need to be able to respect each other's taste while cooking, only then the days will be interesting. 

 I've already brought up, but that's actually the definition. Common ground doesn't mean that you two have common interests, but that you care about each other's interests and work life. A lot of people will find that we love each other, but we don't have common interests and we don't have anything to talk about together. For fear that the other person won't be able to pick up the conversation. But the truth is, shared interests aren't necessary. You tell him about your interests, and if he loves you, he'll be willing to listen. Because two people in love always want to get to know each other better. If the other person offers you the chance to get to know her, will you refuse? Never always look for anything in common. You are together and all conversations between you are common topics. As long as it's a conversation, it's a common topic. Even if it's just one person talking and one person listening, if you listen carefully, there's always a chance to interject. Even if you are from two professions, two regions, two countries, two genders, even if you are from two planets, if you have the heart to understand each other, you will be willing to listen. 

If you listen carefully, you will be able to interject, and if you interject, you will have a common theme. Do you need to find common ground? No need. The prerequisite for a common topic is love. Only love will give you the desire to know everything about the other person. If you don't love him, why would you want to know everything about him? Unless it's a private detective bar. 

 Of course, if you're still in the pursuit phase, that's just unrequited love. Of course, if you're still in the pursuit phase, it's just unrequited love. When you are unrequited, not both people are in love. You do need to find common ground at this point. However, keep in mind that it is not about looking for the other person to have the same interests as you, but rather looking for the other person's hobbies or what's going on in their life. Since you are the one chasing the other person, of course you have to put in a little effort. Making an effort to find out what the other person is interested in is the most important aspect of pursuing them. In fact, you don't need to look for common topics deliberately. When you spend more time together, you will naturally have endless topics to talk about. So, the most important thing is that the other person doesn't hate you and is willing to spend time with you, and I think the pursuit is halfway there. Tell us about the memories you share. There are always topics. 

Anyway, when you're in unrequited love, you need to care about the other person, channel their curiosity, and not focus too much on yourself in general. After all, you're the one chasing the other person. When in a relationship, there is love on both sides, then you should make more of an effort to care and listen to each other. Properly interjecting guidance is also a must. After all, love is not about asking, acquiring, but giving, giving and even sacrificing. Taking the time to listen is also a form of giving. If your lover doesn't talk much, or doesn't want to listen to you, then I doubt his love level. While some people will be more introverted, they should at least be willing to listen. In that case, the other person will need to talk more. Lovingness is a word I invented, meaning the degree of love. Of course love is hard to quantify, but semi-quantitative should do it. Go ahead and care. To listen. To understand. To give. Give. May you have the happiest love ever. 

 Why similarity in thoughts and background is important for the success of relationships. 

 To be honest, I actually like similarity. What does it mean to be similar? Similarity means that with a look from you, I can read your thoughts. The similarity means that you and me won't quarrel because of buying bags and cosmetics, playing games, etc. The similarity means that you will always have a common topic, and there won't be the usual gap after the confession of affection. Similarity means that you will always have something in common, and there will not be the usual period of ambiguity after confession. The similarity means that when you quarrel, see the things you like, the first thing you want to share is each other, where also the cold war goes on. I'm not saying that complementary is bad, I just, feel more comfortable with similarity. Why? Because complementary means that you have to allow yourself to accept each other's flaws and tolerate each other. 

Many people say, what's so hard about that, like me of course you can do it. I used to think that was the case, but then I came to realize that it's really hard to do. You tend to like someone because you like certain good things about me. Before you are not together, all you think about is how good he is. But after you get together, you will suddenly realize that he is not as perfect as you thought. What is complementary? It is you who are patient ta angry easily, you are romantic ta unintelligible, you are introverted ta cheerful, it is you who have no opinion ta bold and thoughtful. 

 It's like the saying, "I like the moon, but the moon runs to me, is that still called the moon"? It may not be the right word to use, but I hope you can probably understand what I mean.  And then you're together. You'll find that ta's strengths, it turns out, are not just strengths. ta is easily angered. You have to be careful when you talk to him, so that you don't make him angry without knowing what to say. You've got a good temper and you're tired. ta doesn't understand. You carefully prepared a gift for the ta, picked on the anniversary to give the ta, you are full of joy that the ta will be happy, but the ta asked you why you want to buy a gift, more serious, will ask you why you spend money, have this money is better to do something else. 

The first thing you need to do is to ask for a gift, and the second thing you need to do is to ask for a gift. The first thing you need to know is that you can't afford to go to a party without being there. The first thing you need to do is to get out of the house and go to a party. So you started to go out occasionally, and then went out for longer and longer periods of time. You'll be able to get a lot more out of your car than you can afford. You don't make up your mind about anything, and ta thinks you're so cute, so he made a decision for you and told you that he would help you make a decision later. 

Gradually, you discover that the two of you have become a one-man show for me. For example, if you want to eat western food, you tell ta, but ta says, let's go to a barbecue, and you always struggle with regrets anyway. Some people may say that the examples I gave are too extreme. But the examples I'm talking about even if magnified many times is something, and the shallower degree in complementary is simply commonplace. This is when you look at me and you realize that I am is no longer so shining in your heart. 

A lot of people can't survive this long period of adjustment, and I'm no exception. Because it is really sad that everything was so good at the beginning, why did it become like this later? That's why I now feel that it's hard to complement each other, but similarities are really comfortable. Because of the similarity, you are gentle together, indecisive together, think together, prepare for a romantic holiday together, rarely reveal your feelings but understand each other. 

Because of your similarities, isn't it the happiest to do what you like with the person you like? Both of you, you are the happiest. Because of the similarity, when you try to open up new perceptions, ta can often do it in sync with you, no sooner, no later. Because of the similarity, you and ta will always be the closest lovers, even if you are forced to stop being together for some things, you will be the most understanding friends. Because of the similarity, you want to do the ta will often understand support, will not appear not to understand and to you pointing the situation. Because of the similarity, you understand each other more, understand each other's preferences, will not touch each other's minefield, reduce many, many unnecessary quarrels. Because of the similarity, the two souls can resonate and bring the heart palpitations. Because of the similarity, you will never be alone. So, similarity, really beautiful. 

 In my own experience, the two need to be both, but complementary should be more than similar. What's similar is the core, the soul, a tacit symbiosis after a long time together. It is to be based on the complementary exterior. What is complementary is more of a personality, a point of mutual attraction. The reason why men and women come together to fall in love is because the other is mysterious and inquisitive about each other, the other has a very different point in me that attracts me, and I want to enter his or her spiritual world to understand him or her, to accompany him or her, to give the other the temperature I can give. Imagine, can two jugs of warm swallowed water have chemistry? Of course not. What about a pot of boiling water and a pot of cold water? Mutual warmth is just right (probably not the right example, but trying to get that across). Interesting souls are needed in life, and only a mutual attraction of personalities can arrive at a soul-soothing coexistence.